assalamualaikum.....bismillahirrahmanirrahim....
a very gud morning to all....wohaa....pagi lagi ker...lol.... :p
today's menu - nasi ayam!...favvy the only princess in the house....baek mama kan...rajin msk makanan kegemaran ank2..!...heheheh.....msok bakol angkat sendrik!!...rsanya tak perlu snap pic or share recipe...sebab sume mak2 out there tau nak wat nsik ayam cmna kan...very simple!...hehe...in malas mode....so sbab tu masak nasik ayam je...kalau lagi2 malas, tak masak langsung!..wakakaka....
sebenarnya setiap entry, sejak akhir2 nih makin mrepek jek...tidak membina n terbina langsung nak baca kan...tidak memberi manfaat!...huh!...ntah le why....maybe very bz lately kot....tu pasal otak jem n blur!...haih...
arini rsa dissappointed n maybe depressed kot...ntah la....1 question cekgu!...adakah semua anak2 suka menceritakan perihal pe yg jadi dalam rumah mereka kepada org luar?....adakah anak2 suka cerita mama n abah suka marah n rotan bila buat salah...?....semua kids macam tu eh..?!..sebab i couldnt remember la during my time i did so or not...but am sure i never told my cikgu or my fren, abah rotan me...or abah marah..!...am very sure about that!!...why kids this days like that ha...?....
i still remember my mom rotan me sebab panjat pokok dgn boys..(me the only girl that time...hahaha)...then other situation my mom rotan me di luar rumah sebab i pegi Kg Kastam without her permission...(far from my house)....n bnyk g kes i kena rotan....well, am quite notti time kcik2 dulu...hehehe...bukan notti la...mmg sgt notti pun...still ingat abah sgt worry coz i mcm jantan!...kehkehkeh....now jadi pompuan okeh!...
but still how mad my mom n abah at me or rotan me, i never ever told cikgu or story to my frens or anyone!...coz i know it is all my fault!...mmg la time tu mrh sgt, tambah insiden kena rotan kat luar umah, sume org tgk...malu beb!!..but i never feel neglected...sampai i perlu tell other person just to get sympathy or attention..and i couldnt imagine...why my kids doing so...why they told everyone that we marah n rotan them....huh!...headache!
of coz we did so because of some reasons....not salah sikit rotan...NO!....i know by posting in here, people will get me wrong...lantak ler....i just nak express my thought and still i dunno y they did so....!... me n my hubby doesnt think it is wrong to rotan our kids....we not doing sampai cedera..it is a simple canning method, which is rotan on their palm, their leg n their bontot...is it wrong?....hello..if lebam kat dahi tu bukan we did okeh...itu dia terhantuk somewhere...my kids very hyperX one..especially hariz...so dont blame us when they lebam sna sni...so far bukan sbab kita pukul!...haiyooo...very sempit pemikiran!..or is it bcoz of the title i hold, so they have that suspicious thought..?!....
Masya Allah....kalu me tak sayang them...i bley persuade my hubby dont take care of them...i can bodek him tinggalkan they all kat kampung....i tak payah susah2 bangun pagi make breakfast...i tak payah penat2 masak!....i tak payah bother pasal baju2 dorang pkai...n i tak perlu susah2 ajak my hubby shopping new clothes for them!..they are my kids!...i loved them!...tolong la....we are now in new era seyh...dah takde dah bwg putih bwg merah doh..!...i marah n rotan bcoz i sayang okeh..i want them to grow up be a good, successful people..be somebody...if from now i tak teach them good manner, what would they be when they grow up..?...it is our responsibilty dang...me n my hubby!...
...it is not that we tak sayang them tau tak...sebab sayang la kita marah...sebab sayang la kita rotan....like ainul before....tak penah2, jalan kaki balik rumah dari sekolah..(jauh n pass thru main road okeh...)...of coz kita rotan...it is a warning for her not to do it again...bahaya weh...kalau kena langgar, sapa nak dipersalahkan?....ni ha...mama nih yg nak kena, bcoz my responsibility to fetch her!...
last week, izzul balik lambat...suppose sampai rumah 12.10..tapi until jam 1pm tak sampai lagi...lucky my hubby at home...so he go out n cari him...we panicked...bcoz pintu pagar sekolah dah kunci!...rupanya, dia lepak sembang ngan fren kat rumah sape ntah yg ade buai!...hadoi!...umor 5tahun weh...5tahun dah pndai lencong tempat laen weh.....then he did again, kali nih masa g ngaji...my Allah, i tak leh accept...why?...sebab dia keluar rumah bwk muqaddam, pkai songkok...salam n bye2 mama...tapi end up nya dia g padang nak maen!...tak g ngaji!!.....
so salah ker mama n abah marah?...salah ke kalau kita rotan dgn tujuan nak mengajar!..teach them that it is wrong..n jgn ulang lagi!...salah mama n abah ker?...are we not practice good parenting control?...are we not a good parents??....n i hate bila ada yg memandai nak teach us....if u someone older than me...okeh...we respect that!...but if u pun baru kawen tak sampai setahun, anak pun takde g...stop!...u never know kids this days...very challenging!... all methods like our parents used before are not relevant to practice now...am i rite mom out there, please do gimme a guide!..thank you....
and actually, we did try various method...from talk smoothly...ask softly...until the final stage = rotan or denda msok bilik, no cartoons!...depends on kesalahan la....we not rotan everyday...kadang-kadang...we not marah them everyday too...we treat them nicely...nama pun anak kan...no need to explain la kan how we layan anak...same like other parents too.....btol x...?...tentu la semua kemahuan dituruti (ikut keadaan jugak...), tambah2 kalau bab nk mkn papa...tapi kalau salah, sayang mcm mana pun tetap kena marah!...no excuse!...
huh!very in chaos emotion rite now...really need vacation!!......HELP!!!...